<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Reframing You]]></title><description><![CDATA[A non profit initiative that focuses on providing a FREE platform for people to communicate with experts in all fields from all around the world.]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 00:30:07 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.reframing-you.com/az/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Thinking Is Not Healing: Why Intellectualising Your Emotions Isn’t the Same as Feeling Them]]></title><description><![CDATA[In therapeutic spaces, one of the most common defense mechanisms you’ll encounter , especially among high-functioning, self-aware individuals , is intellectualization . It’s subtle, often praised as insight, and widely misunderstood as emotional processing. But here’s the truth:  Understanding your trauma is not the same as metabolizing it.   Naming your patterns is not the same as shifting them.   Talking about your feelings is not the same as actually feeling them. And until we learn to sit...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/thinking-is-not-healing-why-intellectualising-your-emotions-isn-t-the-same-as-feeling-them</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a14bcab9110b3fca1786f4</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 07:56:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_1ae7fc63f26b430ba6dab3d31385f0d2~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Tug-of-War Between Authenticity and Belonging: Why Being Yourself Feels Risky When You Crave Love]]></title><description><![CDATA[You want to be known , but not rejected. You want to be loved , but not at the cost of pretending. You want to be real , but what if your realness makes someone leave? This is the quiet war so many of us carry inside.The conflict between being ourselves  and being accepted . It  sounds simple, like a choice , but it never feels like one. Especially if you’ve ever been shamed, abandoned, or made to feel like “too much” or “not enough” just for being who you are. Let’s talk about what’s really...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/the-tug-of-war-between-authenticity-and-belonging-why-being-yourself-feels-risky-when-you-crave-lov</link><guid isPermaLink="false">699be96d33aebccb486b627f</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 06:01:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_290ed229c90d45f3addac95c797222ce~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Design Studio</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Lost Art of Creation_ Reclaiming Depth in a World Addicted to Quick Highs And Dopamine]]></title><description><![CDATA[In today’s world, most of us don’t realize we’re chasing a drug. We scroll for it. Shop for it. Post for it. Swipe for it. A hit of dopamine here, a spike of serotonin there. Short-form videos, breaking news, 24/7 availability of entertainment, matches, messages, and memes , all available in seconds, all engineered to keep us hooked. But this isn’t a morality tale about phones or screens. This is about what happens to the psyche  , and the soul , when your reward circuitry is hijacked for so...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/the-lost-art-of-creation_-reclaiming-depth-in-a-world-addicted-to-quick-highs-and-dopamine</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6992be49884976137da8ceb8</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 07:41:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_1dbf1bf1d22d4a8db97a84614002713c~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Drama Triangle: Why You Keep Playing the Victim, Hero, or Villain Without Even Realising It]]></title><description><![CDATA[Coined by psychiatrist Dr. Stephen Karpman , the Drama Triangle  is a psychological model that explains a pattern of dysfunctional social interaction many of us unconsciously fall into. It’s not about being “dramatic.” It’s about getting stuck in emotional roles  that feel familiar, even addictive, because they match old stories we once survived. At the center of this triangle are three roles : The Victim The Rescuer (Hero) The Persecutor (Villain) Each role is reactive. Each one keeps us...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/the-drama-triangle-why-you-keep-playing-the-victim-hero-or-villain-without-even-realising-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69808ee0e90da4b7522b4e03</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 11:52:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_717a1091fb6d4f879b5a1c54c0f8eebb~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Repetition Compulsion in Cluster B Disorders, Especially Borderline Personality Disorder]]></title><description><![CDATA[Repetition compulsion  is a psychodynamic concept that refers to the unconscious drive to reenact unresolved emotional experiences from the past , particularly those rooted in childhood trauma, abandonment, or emotional neglect. It’s not self-sabotage for the sake of drama , it’s the nervous system’s attempt to find resolution through re-creation. In individuals with Cluster B personality disorders , especially Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)  , repetition compulsion is a core...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/repetition-compulsion-in-cluster-b-disorders-especially-borderline-personality-disorder</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69786296d8331f0183326260</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 07:11:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_fcf6af2c1481423e856c368d829155e8~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Not Everyone Who Hurt You Is a Narcissist , The Internet Has Diluted a Clinical Diagnosis]]></title><description><![CDATA[The word “narcissist”  used to describe a very specific clinical pattern. Now, it's become shorthand for anyone who: ●       Let you down ●       Made you feel unseen ●       Ended a relationship abruptly ●       Disagreed with your version of the story ●       Was emotionally unavailable And while those behaviors may be deeply painful, they’re not inherently narcissistic . What’s happening across social media , particularly in “therapy speak” culture , is that narcissism  is being flattened...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/not-everyone-who-hurt-you-is-a-narcissist-the-internet-has-diluted-a-clinical-diagnosis</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69649b26f5f677155673171d</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2026 07:02:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_b5c781d3943d4987a3f8d06435638eeb~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sex Addiction, Hypersexuality, or Just a High Libido? ]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world where casual sex  is more openly discussed, where pornography use  is widespread, and where “ sex addict ” is thrown around as casually as “I’m addicted to coffee,” the lines between sex addiction , hypersexuality , and high libido  have become increasingly blurred. But these are not interchangeable terms. And if you're someone who’s ever wondered, “Do I have a problem with sex?”  or “Is my partner just more sexual than me, or is it something deeper?” ,this article is for you....]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/sex-addiction-hypersexuality-or-just-a-high-libido</link><guid isPermaLink="false">695b5cabfd6b4081212f761c</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2026 06:48:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_cb8bf5639f20441aac6838c150b2f5a0~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Just Because A Narcissist Can’t Hold Onto You Emotionally Doesn’t Mean It Wasn’t Real for Them]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a difficult truth that sits at the intersection of emotional trauma, personality structure, and unmet attachment needs:  Sometimes, someone with narcissistic  traits genuinely felt something for you , and still couldn’t hold onto it.   Not because they were faking it.  Not because they were trying to manipulate you from the very first moment.  But because their system lacks the object constancy required to hold onto emotional connection when they’re dysregulated. This doesn’t excuse...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/just-because-a-narcissist-can-t-hold-onto-you-emotionally-doesn-t-mean-it-wasn-t-real-for-them</link><guid isPermaLink="false">695751863049016ee543e18e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2026 05:14:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_86255993ca1a4bb0ac3135b63b289eb4~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Design Studio</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Impulsive Thoughts vs Intrusive Thoughts: Understanding the Difference Your Mind Has Been Trying to Show You]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most people assume all unwanted thoughts belong to the same chaotic category ,the mental static that disrupts your focus, startles you in the middle of a quiet afternoon, or nudges you toward something you never intended to say or do. But the mind is far more precise than we give it credit for. Not all unwanted thoughts are created equal. Two types in particular often get confused: intrusive thoughts  and impulsive thoughts .The confusion makes sense ,both appear suddenly, both feel...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/impulsive-thoughts-vs-intrusive-thoughts-understanding-the-difference-your-mind-has-been-trying-to</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69537046aed825436120443d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 06:38:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_a7389b88e6b64503a5d5fb510e4a0f02~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Start Breaking Your Anxious Attachment Patterns]]></title><description><![CDATA[Anxious attachment  doesn’t come from being “too sensitive” or “needy.”  It comes from early experiences that taught you love is conditional , attention is inconsistent, and closeness is something you must earn by hyper-attuning to others. As an adult, this often shows up in relationships as: Overthinking every interaction Fear of abandonment Anxiety when someone pulls away Overgiving, overexplaining, and emotionally overfunctioning Difficulty feeling secure, even when things are going well...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/how-to-start-breaking-your-anxious-attachment-patterns</link><guid isPermaLink="false">694e260e103da5c23b8be6da</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2025 06:15:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_221d1d82eab0449da9e3717fb60cda1d~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Healthy Relationships Don’t Spike Your Anxiety, They Regulate Your Nervous System]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a belief , often romanticized through films, novels, and certain social media accounts , that a relationship should make you feel breathless, uncertain, and emotionally activated at all times. That love should feel like adrenaline. That if your heart isn’t racing, your palms aren’t sweating, and you’re not constantly trying to decode the other person’s behavior, it’s probably not love , it’s boredom. But let’s get this straight: if a relationship is spiking your anxiety, it’s not...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/healthy-relationships-don-t-spike-your-anxiety-they-regulate-your-nervous-system</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6948ea96a496ce9330b53ef1</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2025 06:57:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_29bc1ae083d04acc977e488ab578d7d8~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gaslighting Isn’t Just Disagreement: Understanding the Term Before We Misuse It]]></title><description><![CDATA[Words hold power , but only if we use them with precision. And few words in today’s mental health discourse have been more misused, diluted, and thrown around casually than “gaslighting.” On social media, almost any form of conflict is now labeled gaslighting.  If someone disagrees with your memory? “Gaslighting.”  If someone challenges your interpretation of an event? “Gaslighting.”  If someone is simply unkind, rude, or oblivious? Again , “Gaslighting.” But that’s not what gaslighting...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/gaslighting-isn-t-just-disagreement-understanding-the-term-before-we-misuse-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6940fc7418c2f6b69b8a94f7</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2025 06:38:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_08644383a4d24f49b1c1fb3ed412082f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Design Studio</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Chemistry Isn’t Compatibility , Especially When Your Nervous System Feels Unsafe]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a narrative that gets recycled over and over in dating culture: “But the chemistry was insane.” “I’ve never felt this kind of connection before.” “It’s magnetic, but also a little toxic.” Let’s pause right there. Chemistry , without consistency, kindness, or alignment , is not a green flag.  It’s often a trap door into dysregulation, not intimacy. And no matter how intense the spark feels, if the person on the other side of it is emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/chemistry-isn-t-compatibility-especially-when-your-nervous-system-feels-unsafe</link><guid isPermaLink="false">693bf28a38266d8ba6233a24</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 10:57:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_2a685166c127439b9ffe14b0d2365196~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Distinct Paths of CBT and ACT: Which Therapy is Right for Your Mental Health Journey?]]></title><description><![CDATA[CBT vs ACT: What’s the Difference? There’s a moment in therapy where someone says: “I know this thought isn’t true. I’ve journaled it. I’ve reframed it. I’ve done the work. But I still feel  like shit.” That’s where the difference between CBT  and ACT  begins to matter. You see, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)  and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)  both aim to help people feel better. But they approach the mind in two very different ways ,one by challenging your thoughts, the other...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/the-distinct-paths-of-cbt-and-act-which-therapy-is-right-for-your-mental-health-journey</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6936733ea2eba4aaa5c2d61a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2025 06:51:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_5ffa01e6799d4d1f94444c10a738dc52~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[“But What Did They Mean?”: Why Obsessing Over Emotionally Unavailable People Is Wasting Your Precious Brainpower (And Probably a Sign You’re Scared of Real Intimacy)]]></title><description><![CDATA[You know that thing where you stare at a text bubble and think, “If they wanted to, they would... but maybe they’re just scared?” Or how you replay a 3-minute conversation 18 times in your head because they said, “I’m not ready for anything serious,”  and you know  what they meant was “I want you to fix me.” Yeah, that’s not love. That’s emotional gymnastics mixed with a fear of actually being loved in return. Let’s talk about it. The Obsession Isn’t About Them  ….. It’s About You Avoiding...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/why-obsessing-over-real-emotionally</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69317dc8644b95bce4b5a7a2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 12:35:40 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_5a1bd5d0c8ea4c69b240d17e8d5c5804~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_768,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Hormones and Neurotransmitters Control Your Sleep]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you’re reading this at 2 a.m., your brain treats it as if you’re reading your morning newspaper. This happens because your internal clock, or circadian rhythm, governs how your brain perceives time and controls your sleep-wake cycle. Understanding the biological processes behind sleep reveals a fascinating interaction between hormones, neurotransmitters, and brain structures that work together to regulate when you feel awake or tired. Sleep is not just a passive state but an active,...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/how-hormones-and-neurotransmitters-control-your-sleep</link><guid isPermaLink="false">691c04d21f01408bc6435b9a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2025 06:11:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_530e2bf42bcc4f3c997e71851794cc8c~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding Codependency: Identifying Signs and Transforming Your Life]]></title><description><![CDATA[Codependency often hides in plain sight, quietly shaping how people relate to others and themselves. It can trap individuals in unhealthy patterns, making it difficult to recognize the need for change. Understanding what codependency is, spotting the signs, and learning how to reframe your life can open the door to healthier relationships and personal growth. What Is Codependency? Codependency is a behavioral pattern where a person prioritizes others' needs over their own to an unhealthy...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/understanding-codependency-identifying-signs-and-transforming-your-life</link><guid isPermaLink="false">691179b944d4e00cba05f397</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2025 06:26:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_564ac6b094a24e4689dcd87d758c206d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[ADHD Is Not Just About Focus: Busting the Biggest Myth with Science]]></title><description><![CDATA[When people hear ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), their minds often jump to a single image: a hyperactive child who can’t sit still or a distracted adult who loses their keys ten times a day. But what if we told you that the biggest myth about ADHD is that it’s just about attention? What if we reframed the narrative and said: ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention at all — it’s a dysregulation of it? Wait, What Does That Mean? ADHD brains aren’t inattentive — they’re...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/adhd-is-not-just-about-focus-busting-the-biggest-myth-with-science</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69084820f82473eab675c50e</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2025 06:18:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_fb66c16d580b4124b51023990bda616d~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What if you are the glitch in society]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Conspiracy of Your Existence We’ve all been fascinated by conspiracy theories, but what if the biggest conspiracy isn’t about the government, aliens, or simulation theory—what if it’s about you? Your existence might just be the system’s greatest anomaly—a glitch in society, not because you’re broken, but because your perception itself is a constant act of guesswork and correction. The Brain’s Secret Code: Predictive Processing Every emotion, thought, and decision you make is based on...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/what-if-you-are-the-glitch-in-society</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6900713149abca7780a6a08b</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 05:50:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_8bad9bc47c964776863da3effff289c0~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding the Psychology Behind Low-Key Birthday Celebrations and Reframing Your Mindset for Mental Health Support]]></title><description><![CDATA[A peaceful spot for reflection and self-care Everyone views birthdays through a distinct lens. For some, it's a grand occasion celebrated...]]></description><link>https://www.reframing-you.com/post/understanding-the-psychology-behind-low-key-birthday-celebrations-and-reframing-your-mindset-for-men</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68e4a344a062988b037188ed</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2025 06:25:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/59abad_408d50da16c140fcb88b4b34deef81c3~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Reframing You</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>